To Defile or Not to Defiled

To one person it's defiled, to someone else it is pure. It's not the
thing - it's the person. Not the activity, but the heart. So it's
not whether we wear pants or a skirt, listen to one type of music or
another. Titus would say we will have pure motives with pure
doctrine. this comes the more we saturate ourselves with God's word.

Titus 1:15 To the pure, all things are pure; but to those who are
defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure, but both their mind and
their conscience are defiled.